Summary

These days, it’s often easier to avoid face-to-face contact in favor of technological shortcuts. In this episode, Michael Gelb, the author of The Art of Connection, shares not only why real interaction is crucial in building meaningful relationships but are also the key to creating innovative ideas and solving our most intractable problems.

We begin our discussion on the topic of ‘how to think’ with Michael referring to the work in an early book – How to Think Like Leonardo da Vinci. In discussing each of the “seven steps to genius” Michael makes a clear connection between how they relate to building better relationships and the art of connection. That both he and I agree is an integral part of raising our well-being and living a meaningful life. 

Bio

Michael J. Gelb is the author of The Art of Connection and has pioneered the fields of creative thinking, accelerated learning, and innovative leadership. He leads seminars for organizations such as DuPont, Merck, Microsoft, Nike, Raytheon, and the University of Virginia’s Darden School of Business. He is the coauthor of Brain Power and author of How to Think Like Leonardo da Vinci and several other bestsellers. His website is www.MichaelGelb.com.

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Discussion Topics

• How to think and the seven steps to genius with reference to growing and harnessing quality relationships.
• Curiosity.
• Demonstration.
• Sharpening your senses.
• Embrace uncertainty.
• Integrate art and science.
• Integrate body and mind.
• Connection.

Quick round questions

Do you have any routines and rituals that you believe contribute to your success?

Walking in silence, tai-chi, and meditation to name a few.

What advice would you give your 20-year-old self?

Don’t worry.

What is the meaning of success?

Fulfilment

What is your number one productivity advice?

Learn how to do mind mapping.

What advice would you give someone that needing/wanting to make a change?

Develop Awareness. Be compassionate with yourself first. Learn to think.

Favourite Food

Fresh linguini with white truffle and a glass of Barolo Wine.

Favourite Leisure Activity

“It’s all leisure.” Watching comedy

Favourite Book

Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl

The Art of Connection: 7 Relationship-Building Skills Every Leader Needs Now by Michael Gelb

How to Think Like Leonardo da Vinci: Seven Steps to Genius Every Day by Michael Gelb

Favourite Quote

“Connect before solving.”

Do we all have a why?

Maybe undiscovered or hidden but that’s why we are here – to help people discover it.

What does living with passion and purpose mean?

If you don’t know what your purpose is or your why here it is – “The purpose is to find out what it is.”

How to connect with Michael Gelb

You can reach him and check out his work by visiting his website MichaelGelb.com

Further Reading and Resources 

TED Talks: Ideas worth spreading

Psychology Today: Psychology Today is devoted exclusively to everybody’s favourite subject – Ourselves

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Elite Daily: The Voice of Generation Y

Four Hour Work Week: How to escape the 9-5, live anywhere and join the new rich.

The Minimalists: How to pursue a minimalist lifestyle and be happier.

Mind Hacks: Tips and Tricks for Using Your Brain

Rich Roll: Plantpowered Wellness Advocate

The Art of Charm: Build confidence, feel comfortable and networking differently.

American Psychological Association: The largest scientific and professional organization of psychologists in the United State

The Art of Manliness: Encouraging men to be better husbands, fathers, brothers, citizens.

Tiny Buddha: Simple wisdom for complex lives.

Brain Pickings: An inventory of cross-disciplinary interestingness, spanning art, science, design, history, philosophy, and more.

Mind Body Green: Lifestyle media brand dedicated to inspiring you to live your best life.

Zen Habits: Find simplicity and mindfulness in life.

Creative NonFiction: “true stories well told.” 

Addicted 2 Success: Motivation & Inspiration Website full of quotes and inspiring articles for entrepreneurs.

Barking Up the Wrong Tree: science-based answers and expert insight on how to be awesome at life.

The Positivity Blog: Practical articles on happiness, self-esteem, productivity and social skills.

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