Who Are Your Mentors and Why?
In this episode I wish to discuss the importance of selecting the right mentors as it relates to the life you want to live. It is easy to circle the screen looking for those high achievers or the ones that have celebrity status and always in our face but is that the life you wish to live for?
We must also question what we perceive and what is actually true. I wish to suggest that is is not the wealth one has or brilliant possessions but more how they live their life that matters in relation to how you with to be. Aim for how you want to be in life first the how will come as will what you wish to have in life.
Kick ass and live happily!
Summary
Robert Gerrish is the founder and a director of Flying Solo, Australia’s solo and micro business community and co-author of the business bestseller, Flying Solo: How to go it alone in business.
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He has been a business commentator on ABC Four Corners, A Current Affair, Sky Business, Fairfax Digital, 2UE and ABC Radio. He presents regularly at conferences around the country. He also hosts the Flying Solo Podcast and write for a variety of small business publications. (more…)
Be-Do-Have. Simplify, De-Clutter & Create Abundance
“We really must understand that the lust for affluence in contemporary society is psychotic. It is psychotic because it has completely lost touch with reality. We crave things we neither need nor enjoy.” Richard Foster.
In a blog post I wrote recently I shared some practical tips and approach to simplifying life. From experience they are what have helped me. You can read that post here. For those of you who prefer listening over reading I have created this podcast. Enjoy!
You can read my previous two blog posts on this topic below.
Simplified Living For A Simplified Life: A Process For Creating More
“You may say you’re against status, but if you filled a room with people who said they were anti-status, a hierarchy would soon form based on how anti-status they are.”
Loretta is Professor a psychologist the brain chemical master. She has spent years studying the chemicals of the human brain and how they affect our behviours. Serotonin, oxytocin, dopamine and endorphin – all great insightful in why we may do the things we do.
In this episode replay we discuss our happy chemicals. The habits of a happy brain, how we can influence our levels of happiness on our journey to living with greater passion and purpose. Enjoy!
Essential: Essays by The Minimalistsby Ryan Nicodemus Joshua Fields Millburn
“It’s only after we’ve lost everything that we’re free to do anything.” Chuck Palahniuk
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Have you heard about the minimalist lifestyle? These guys live it, breathe it and share it. Having chased through the corporate life they found themselves less satisfied and began asking questions about what it’s all for. At least as far as I can tell. This book is not a coordinated journey of how to live a minimalist life but as the tittle suggestions a series of essays that they have written on living a minimalist life. Inspiration to take action towards a minimalist lifestyle of your own.
Please enjoy my book reflection and grab yourself a copy below.
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What Is Your Earliest Childhood Memory?
Our childhood leaves clues. What was in the past that made you happy, excited, lit you up that has been washed away or covered from the years of living the conditioned life?
Think back to your earliest childhood memory. What is the first thing that comes to mind? What meaning can you filter from this memory. Mine was walking a bush path on an adventure with a group of kids at about the age of 3. I love an adventure and I love sharing my experience with others. Nothing much has changed.
Summary
“What would you do if you knew you could not fail?”
Frank Sesno’s book, Ask More: The Power of Questions to Open Doors, Uncover Solutions and Spark Change shows how we can be more effective at work, at home and in life by putting great questions to work for us. What questions should we be asking?
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Ask More offers eleven categories of questions, each with its own approach, outcome and listening skills. We can use questions to learn, to connect with others, to trigger innovation and imagination, to convey authorship and to discover a shared mission.
Frank Sesno is an Emmy Award-winning journalist and former anchor, White House Correspondent, Washington Bureau Chief, and talk show host for CNN. He currently serves as director of George Washington University’s School of Media and Public Affairs, and is the creator of Planet Forward, an innovative forum seeking solutions to daunting challenges such as global hunger. He lives in Washington, D.C.
Key Take Outs
- Remove the period from the sentence and ad a questions mark. It will spark further discovery.
- Find time for silence to ask questions.
- Find time for conversation.
- Make an appointment for questioning. It helps remove surprise.
- Try a conversation where you don’t use “I” am “me.”
- Use Echo questions. Listen to key words, facts or emotions and repeat it. This will assist to expand the insight and discussion.
- Empathetic questioning requires you to put yourself in the shoes of the respondent.
Do you have any routines and rituals that you believe contribute to your success?
Curious about people and always fascinated to know more. Open minded and just want to view things from many various angles. It helps deepen understanding about humanity.
What advice would you give your 20-year-old self?
To ask more. Not just the first question the first time. Ask in layers. Be deliberate and purposeful. Also, I think its important to challenge yourself.
What advice would you give someone that needing/wanting to make change?
What makes me feel proud. What would make my friends and family proud? What would make a difference? What would you like to read about yourself if someone wrote a biography about you?
Quick round questions
Favourite Food
Chinese food
Favourite Leisure Activity
Horse-back ridding.
Favourite Book
Life Reimagined: The Science, Art, and Opportunity of Midlife by Barbara Bradley Hagerty
Favourite Quote
“What would you do if you knew you could not fail?”
What is the meaning of life?
Make a difference in someone else’s life. Doing something that has value in my own life. Giving back. Creating.
Do we all have a why?
I don’t know. Not necessarily.
What does living with passion and purpose mean?
Passion is what we love and care about. Purpose is setting ourselves a goal and achieving it.
How to find
Website: www.askmorebook.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/franksesno/
The 3 Keys to Success, The Why, Awareness, & The Work
In this solo rant I discuss the 3 keys to success. A very bold statement I know and while there certainly are many other things that contribute to ones success, however you may define it, these are the three areas that have had the greatest impact in my life so far.
Know your why, find greater awareness and do the work. Enjoy!
“Without ambition one starts nothing. Without work one finishes nothing. The prize will not be sent to you. You have to win it.” Ralph Waldo Emerson
10-time marathon runner, personal improvement junky and passionate raw vegan, Jeff Sanders is back to inspire you to “Dominate Your Day Before Breakfast.”
In this Episode replay we discuss what it means to find your passion, becoming more productive and managing your time better and how to start your day off to help you reach peak performance.
Ask More: The Power of Questions to Open Doors, Uncover Solutions, and Spark Change by Frank Sesno
The art and science of asking questions is the source of all knowledge. Thomas Berger
Frank Sesno is an award winning American journalist. As a former CNN correspondent, anchor and Washington bureau chief, and currently a Director at George Washington University, Frank has learnt the knack of asking powerful questions. In this book he shares his knowledge by grouping the types and styles of questions that one may ask into 11 succinct categories.
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Questions are enquiry that require answers and it is the insight of questions that bring the magic. It is thought by many, and I believe Frank agrees, that the human population in large part has lost the ability of asking well thought and structured questions. Perhaps we have stopped asking questions period. (more…)
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